5 Things Not to Do in a Divorce

If you are getting a divorce, it is crucial to avoid certain missteps that can drastically alter the outcome of it. Given how emotional the divorce process often is, mistakes can easily occur, especially if you act on impulse. The best way to avoid making these preventable errors is to familiarize yourself with them, so you know what to look out for.

Avoid These Mistakes in a Divorce

We all make mistakes, but the mistakes you make during legal proceedings can substantially affect your future for many years to come. One of the reasons why many people get divorced is to have a better, happier future, so do what you can to ensure you receive the best possible fresh start in life.

Avoid making the 5 following mistakes during your divorce:

  1. Do not tell your children everything: You probably taught your children the importance of honesty, but you do not need to tell them everything about your divorce. It is not a matter of honesty, but rather about sparing their feelings. Your relationship with your spouse is over, but he or she will always be their parent, so do not vent to them about the details of your divorce. To emphasize the importance of this point, some Courts impose standing orders for parents not to discuss the litigation with the children, when the case is filed.
  1. Do not let your emotions sit in the driver’s seat: Divorce is undoubtedly an emotional experience, but that does not mean you should let your feelings dictate all of your decisions. If you base all of your decisions on how you feel rather than on what is best for you and your children, your settlement is not going to help you build a better future for yourself.
  1. Do not hide information from your attorney: Even if you are ashamed of something you did, your attorney needs to know everything that can potentially affect your divorce. In order to best serve you, your attorney must know everything about your situation. If you withhold or omit information, you are only hurting yourself.
  1. Do not be uncooperative with your spouse with co-parenting of your children: If you have children, your spouse will still be your co-parent, so it is important to be cooperative and show a judge that you are willing to work with him or her. There may be situations that require Court intervention if your spouse is showing signs of poor co-parenting or making decisions that are not in the best interest of your children.
  1. Do not use social media: Social media lends itself to oversharing and, if you are going through a divorce, the last thing you want to do is share too much about your personal life online. Your social media posts will come back to haunt you in court, so do yourself a favor and go on hiatus from the online world until after your divorce is finalized.

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